By: Michael Dat
What exactly is flirting all about? Is it a sexual thing? Perhaps it might even sound a bit perverted to you.
Flirting is definitely not perverted. In actual fact, flirting is a clever, playful, powerful and sexual way of communication that turns a woman on. First of all, let try to define what exactly is flirting and what it is not.
Flirting is a mindset of having fun, being natural, being yourself, being confident, being cocky, well just a little cocky without seeming to be too arrogant. Even if you are not a very attractive or a very rich man, if you flirt in the correct way, it will create a kind of sexual tension that will naturally attract more women to you.
Natural confidence in a man is a display of power and yes, women are sexually attracted to such power even though they will never be able to explain it clearly to you.
Good, clever flirting will result in women being sexually attracted to you. Teasing a woman by cleverly playing with your words in your conversation is a great way to flirt. Flirt well and they will respond very favorable to you or should I say, sexually favorable to you.
It is very important that you flirt, right from the start, even if you only say a few clever lines. If you say them early in the conversation, guess what? You will leave a huge impression in her mind which will cause her to remember you as a clever, witty and interesting guy to talk to. Your first impression will really last, especially in the mind of a woman.
One good way of doing it is by using gender reversals. By that I mean taking gender stereotypes and turning them around. Here’s one example. If you catch her looking at you, you can say:
"I saw that...I know you keep looking at my sexy body and you want it so badly you’re drooling, but can’t we be friends first?"
Memorizing silly, over-used pick up lines and corny little jokes, will only work, if it was still in the 1970s! One thing about women is that they just love men who are real. Men who are natural. Men who are secure in themselves and do not bother to try to be someone else, display an aura of attractiveness that most women can never resist.
Most men always forget the fact that women are pretty sharp mentally and they can pick up signals much faster than men. Women can spot it when you are trying to act like someone else or when you are being yourself.
So take your time to flirt in the right manner and see how women respond to you. You will be surprised to know how simple it can be done.
If she challenges or engages you back, it’s on! You should then proceed to increase the stakes and carry on flirting. Do not turn into a nerd at this time and revert back to normal conversation tone. Otherwise, all that you have done will backfire.
About the Author
Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out how to use flirting to make her want you. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.
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