By: Michael Dat
Hooking up with a girl may seem to be an easy job to many, but do you have what it takes to keep her? Guys often claim that they have no idea of what goes on in a woman’s head and that can be very true. How does a guy know what are the needs and wants of the girl of their dreams? But the upsetting truth is, if you do not buck up in your knowledge over such “useless” issues, you can kiss your married life goodbye.
Unlike men who are full of testosterone, women on the contrary are gentle creatures and this feminine part of them remains with them wherever they go. It is one of the distinctive features of a woman and it is also the main reason why guys are so in love with women. They are soft and gentle.
Certainly because of such gentle nature in women, the brash and forceful nature in guys forces them to need to understand how to meet the needs of ladies. Treating a lady with force or allowing her to feel subservient to her partner’s pleasure is out of the question. Before treating a lady so brashly, why not first place yourself as a guy in her shoes? Give it a thought, sometimes she is just putting up with your unruly behaviour but do not take her for granted, as she would definitely move on to greener pastures if she can.
With all that said, sometimes being overly honest in sex may not be such a good idea neither should it be encouraged. Sometimes it may lead to misunderstandings and tension in a relationship that can eventually cause it to turn sour.
A woman just wishes for their spouses to say the right things at the right time, but that obviously is easier said then done. A simple compliment with sincerity, telling her that she looks good, can sometimes be all she needs to refill her love tank. It does not matter whether you are into your first or umpteen year of relationship, girls like to be complimented and that is a never changing fact.
A relationship is very much based on the communication between the two parties. Try to talk with her more, telling her how much you miss her while you are away at work, but try not to over-exaggerate. Instead, be honest and lead her into a mushy conversation.
Being intimate with your spouse is not just about sex, sex and more sex! Rather, you can become intimate with your spouse just by listening to her in bed, having a good chat with her, having a good laugh together with her. Get communicating and you will see a great improvement in your marriage.
Women love to have a sense of security and want their spouses to give them comfort and protection. A simple hug is one of the best ways to show love and concern for a girl and just through a hug you convey the message that you are there to provide the protection and love they want. Once in a while, throw in a few kisses to keep the atmosphere loving and also, learn to kiss her at the right spots, it can come in very handy!
With the right atmosphere, foreplay then becomes of great importance and is absolutely crucial in determining your lovemaking experience. Want to know how to make yourself and her feel euphoric? Learn the basics of foreplay and you would be able to heighten pleasure.
Let her know that she is wanted for more than just sex and that she is cared about as a woman. It is one of the reasons that can really turn her on.
About the Author
Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out the ten most dangerous mistakes you probably make with women - and what to do about it. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and sexuality tips.
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