What Women Want Sexually

By: Michael Dat

What do women really want during sex?

This can actually be extremely baffling to some men. While some men can easily satisfy their mate’s sexual needs, others are still desperately trying to find ways to please their spouse and bring them to an orgasm.

Basically, the details of what a woman really wants during sex are one of the hardest questions for men to answer. To make matters worse, women are not all the same and their sexual preferences differ, so we cannot just grasp the trick to it and keep teach it like mathematics in school. So then, what does it take to make a woman tick sexually?

As the gentleman in the relationship, you have to always remind yourself to respect her body and her decisions. Women are humans after all, just like us men. Treat them with your fullest respect and they will definitely be nice to you.

Simply put, a woman desires her man to drive her wild. Many guys put this off and ignore it as they think they have her “all figured out” and know everything about making her wild. But think it through; do you really know what drives her wild? As mentioned earlier, different women have different sexual likings. Some women can easily get turned on just by playing with her ear lobes while othe get turned on just by watching sappy movies.

Some useful tips to learning what your woman want sexually:

1. Ask them! Some women are very open about their sexual life and would not mind telling the man what they want, but some can be pretty shy about it. However, bear in mind that the open- minded ones can sometimes be pretty hard to please.

2. Watch how your lover turns herself on as she masturbates and learn the similar technique. Humans are creatures of habit and your mate would love it when you stroke her the way she does it. Knowing what excites her can help you suit her needs and bring her to orgasm much faster.

So do not just be interested in love making but rather, also be interested in what pleases your mate more to enhance the love-making experience. Study her sexual likings and characteristics and you would be in for a time of great sex.

When it comes to pleasing her, there are a few factors that you need to consider to make the love making session a successful one. It is all about the “right timing”, which leads to the right kind of mood. Just wait till you think she is ready for it. Remember about respect! Other factors would include comfort level, like ensuring that the bed feels right and of course, getting into the right position and angle with her.

One of the biggest reasons why the sex is unsuccessful is because of distractions. Distractions cause the opposite party to be unprepared for sex. Thus while she may be all prepped up to engage in a energy-filled sex activity, but she cant because she is distracted Hence she might have wanted to come but she cannot simply because her mind is distracted from the activity.

Psychological barriers can also be a hindrance to good sex, little details such as being too rough, or moving too fast can cause her to lose the interest to want to have sex.

What women really want is to have screaming and sexual ecstasy and if you can give that to her, congratulations, you have mastered the art of pleasuring your partner.

About the Author
Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out the ten most dangerous mistakes you probably make with women - and what to do about it. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and sexuality tips.
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